The hologram model of reality allows me to interact with very different individuals without making judgements about the validity of their experience. I think of them as explorers in alternate realities who have returned to report on their progress. Instead of practicing forebearance, I actively listen to their words and seek areas of commonality while noting areas of divergence. Suddenly the differences become valuable features, rather than errors in need of pounding-down.
- from reality as hologram
