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Apr. 11th, 2005 | 05:28 am
mood: melancholymelancholy
music: Ella Fitzgerald - Can't help lovin' dat man

Sooooo...

Divorced two years or so ago. Feeling a lot better, thanks. Made the irrational yet necessary choice not to know her anymore. No hard feelings, but it seems there's always going to be some pain there for me. In particular, she and her fiance are having a baby, and I feel the need to avoid seeing her pregnant.

She's getting married this weekend. It is oddly and selfishly reassuring to me that the lucky boy is someone whom I was fortunate enough to have formally "approved of" way back when. (Yes, "two years ago" is indeed starting to move into the "when I was little" frame of reference. Or as I was gently corrected this weekend, "when I was younger".) So anyway, no issues with the groom.

I wish them the best and I know they'll have a wonderful life. I'm invited to the wedding. They were even sweet enough to make sure it was okay with me that I was invited before inviting me. But I do feel that I don't belong there, even if I'm the only one that feels that's so.


Any reason I should go?

Speak now, or etc. etc.


P.S. - Oh yeah, and I guess all my friends are gonna be there. No, seriously. If I'm not going, I'd better make some other plans. I had originally planned to be away or busy, like, um, sorry, I'll be out of town, I had to wash my hair that month, or something.

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Hmmmm...

from: tamimoto
date: Apr. 12th, 2005 03:21 am (UTC)
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Okay.. while everyone is talking sentimental emotion here. I'm just going to say what came to my mind first. Which was "Screw That". If I were in your shoes, there is NO way that I'd go to that wedding. Maybe that makes me petty or whatever, but who cares!! Let this weekend be all about Matt. Surround yourself with everything that makes YOU happy, and don't worry about the wedding.

Oh.. and you do look like Gaius on Battlestar Galactica in that picture. He has less sex appeal though *wink*.

Love Ya Sweetie!

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